ABOUT THE BOOK
Unhating Me is not a polite self-help manual. It is a surgical intervention for anyone tired of treating their mistakes as permanent identities. It is time to end the quiet, exhausting war you are fighting with yourself.
Inside, you will learn how to:
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Audit Your Plate: Starve your insecurities and replace the "Toxic Menu" with a diet built for authority.
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Fuel Your Engine: Systemize the exact environments, conversations, and proximity that actually activate your identity.
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Recover Your Value: Dismantle the brilliant logic fear uses to baptize limitation as "wisdom."
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End the War: Stop asking, “How do I get rid of this version of me?” and give yourself permission to become who you were always capable of being.
A definition is not an engine. Knowing who you are is only the first step; knowing how to fuel it is the active duty.
Stop waiting for a certificate of readiness. The table is set.
Which version of yourself is holding the fork?
Join the conversation as readers share how Unhating Me has inspired them to break free from self-doubt and embrace their authentic selves.
‘Unhating Me is a game-changer’
What Readers Are Saying
‘An essential read for anyone ready to take control of their narrative’
‘Raw and real,
a must-read!’
‘A powerful manifesto for self-acceptance’
Unhating Me is a roadmap to reclaiming your true identity, and living like the version of you that no longer needs permission to take up space.
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About The Author
Alphius Letshelea is a transformational speaker, pastor, and author dedicated to helping individuals dismantle the barriers between who they are and who they were designed to be. With a deep, foundational focus on discovering true identity and purpose, Alphius is the author of Cherish Your Great Dream, Goodbye Worry, Arise Today, and Unhating Me.
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A firm believer in Jesus Christ, he serves as a pastor at It Is Well Church Intl., where he delivers piercing, life-changing truths that force people to confront their limitations and step into their calling. Alphius’s ultimate passion is to see people break free from the chaos of their internal wars so they can authentically serve and live out their God-given destiny. He is a devoted husband to his wife and a proud father to their two boys.